Are ready for a change in your dating life?
As a certified Top 100 ranked Life Coach, I work with single professionals who can’t understand why they aren’t getting dates, or who are sick of wasting evenings on disappointing dates.
I help you create a lifestyle that attracts high quality dates consistently… in 90 days or less.
I am not a matchmaker who organizes dates for you. I want you to develop the skills necessary to control all aspects of your dating life. That way, you never have to worry about dating for the rest of your life.
I am based in Minneapolis, but work with clients all around the country virtually or by traveling for private workshops.
Step 1: Watch Free Training
I highly recommend you start by watching my free online training or downloading my free guides on how to create an attractive lifestyle.
The training is packed with value and will show you why my clients have been successful.
Step 2: Apply for a Strategy Session
After watching the free online training, most people are interested in receiving personalized advice from me.
You can apply to receive an “Attractive Lifestyle” strategy session, at no cost to you, by completing a short questionnaire telling me your dating goals.
Within 24 hours, you will get a response letting you know whether your session is approved.
The main reasons your application would be declined is if my calendar is full or your goals don’t align with my values as a coach.
Step 3: Receive Your Attractive Lifestyle Guide
If your application is approved, we have a 60-minute phone call or video chat session.
By the end of the session, you will have customized advice on how to increase your attractiveness, exactly where and how to meet quality dates, and exactly what you are going to say in various situations.
You’ll learn skills such as:
- What you should be doing to magnify your value and make your attractiveness undeniable
- How to build intense mutual attraction during conversation, even when you can’t think of the exact words to say
- Over 50 examples of customizable conversation openers
- How to know if they are interested in talking to you BEFORE you speak to them
- A simple strategy to get more dates than you ever have, without feeling exhausted
- The 3 types of dates and when you should use each type to intensify the chemistry
- The 3 components to keep the attraction high forever once you’ve attracted them
You will have the choice to implement the advice on your own or inquire about coaching. If you are impressed by the session, you can ask for a recommendation for my paid coaching services.
Structure & Success Rate
Currently, over 90% of past clients either accomplished a tangible goal (a new relationship) or said they made significant progress towards an internal goal (increased confidence).
For that reason, my services are not cheap, but they are reasonable.
The services are a la carte, meaning you can add or subtract features based on your preferences.
Coaching Calls: The first half of the call answers your questions on the dynamics of your dates for the previous week. The second half of the call is an assessment or exercise to teach you a new dating skill.
Email & Text Support: I provide “just in time” answers to your questions. We can communicate every day, if you prefer.
Event Attendance: I go out with you during the day or night to help you meet singles and provide feedback on each interaction. It can be an organized event or a casual day out.
VIP Day Workshop: Accelerate your growth with a day of exercises and practice scenarios to prepare you for any situation. We pick your strategy for meeting eligible singles and your conversation approach to build instant chemistry.
Learning Products: I have compiled my best advice into a 15-hour audio course with handouts. The lessons are broken into 10 to 60-minute chunks. Topics include inner confidence, building a social life, conversation starters, date guidelines, texting, and everything else you could want.
Online Profile Perfection: I write a custom profile for you or edit your current profile based on 10 key criteria. This includes a template for sending messages to get more responses and weeding out the duds.
“It was fun working with JAM. I met about 25 women.
Regardless of whether I got a date, it was nice to get over my fears of talking to other women.
JAM is very intelligent and he helped me realize that confidence is more of an attitude and a way of carrying yourself. I can do that.
He helped me get out of my head.”
“Because I’m a highly networked business owner, I mistakenly believed my dating life would naturally work itself out.
I’d been single for 7 years and had never met the right guy. The first month working with JAM, I met a great guy and he adores me.
His ability to eliminate the drama, reframe unhealthy thoughts to get results is unparalleled.
All the single women I know should be working with JAM!”
“I moved to the United States from another country, so I contacted JAM to help me meet women.
I’ve been on about 20 dates with high quality women of different ages and backgrounds. Most importantly for me, I built a habit of approaching naturally.
I learned how to build my social circle by organizing events and became a leader within my circle. I would say that I am a more socially intelligent person than before.”
“I recently attended a “Don’t Chase, Attract!” intensive.
I can’t recommend the intensive enough! It is a great experience with a lot of valuable information packed into two days.
I learned tools I can apply immediately that I think will yield some good results.
I can’t wait to share my success story.”
“The conversation piece has always been a challenge for me in dating and socially.
Specifically, not knowing what to say and when to say it. Through this great training, JAM has given me a lot of tools to meet high quality women and really market those million-dollar assets I possess.
I got numbers from eight women in the following weeks.
A few women were raving fans and said they never met a man like me and really connected with my conversation.”
“When I first talked to JAM, I was asking why it was so difficult to get on the same page with people you are dating.
I had dated some men in the past that were emotionally unavailable or weren’t ready to move forward in the direction I wanted.
I worked with JAM on easy ways to guide a conversation. That same night, I went to my pre-birthday celebration and met a man who met all my standards!
We’ve continued dating. It feels joyful and calm. I am not ‘hustling’ for a connection and that is the difference.”
“I would highly recommend this program! Out of all the dating programs, JAM’s was the best that I’ve ever encountered.
Other coaches give you a bunch of tips and send you on your way, basically naked with no real structure. JAM’s approach is the complete opposite.
Honestly, the initial night we went out together, I wasn’t able to get any dates. But, I was able to get through many sticking points, like the courage to approach groups of women.
I approached 10 women in one night, a personal record. In the following days, I was able to approach four women, including groups, and I got two numbers from quality women in a matter of hours one weekend night.
He equipped me with a set of tools that will allow me to practice and develop my own methods instead of a few canned routines.”